"I Can't See Daddy! I Can't See!"

What my earthly father says about me ultimately becomes what I say about me. If he says by his absence that I am worthless then I will say to myself I am worthless. If he says by his abuse I am  invaluable then I become invaluable. If he overcompensated for my faults, then I never make a conscious choice to overcome them.  As a women without God I am in constant battle with who my earthly father said or did not say that I am. At the core of every emotionally prosperous women, there is an understanding and an acceptance of who she was/is in her father's eyes. Either her earthly father set those principles in place or her Heavenly Father has been allowed to erase the markings of what her earthly father did not put in place.  Without question, we are not completely made whole until we acknowledge and migrate through this process.

We must make a conscious effort to erase the scars that were placed on us by earthly fathers that, "did they best," but their best was not good enough to establish in us the security we needed to be healthy whole individuals.  We will continue to see through a foggy, unclear mirrors until we allow The Source" to clean and erase all the blemishes from our past.  Put your big girl glasses on and begin to see yourself as God sees you.  You are His child!  You are a princess!  You are not a victim! You are not a failure and you will fulfill the purposes and plans for your life! Faith calls things that be not as they already were!

"A woman of integrity lives what she believes about God" 

Shannon Ethridge 

"Your father teaches you what to expect from a man" 

Iyanla Vanzant

"As long as we see God through the filter of our earthly father, we will never achieve or experience all the richness and benefits of being God's child. Too many of us miss golden opportunities to succeed excel and progress because we refuse to relinquish the power of our trust in God so that it might reach its fullest potential" " 

Pastor Tony Gilmore

Please consider taking this FREE assessment sponsored by thedaddyvoidproject to determine how you have been impacted by fatherlessness by clicking on the link below.  For further details regarding the assessment please contact us at thedaddyvoidproject@gmail.com

The Daddy Void Prototype Test

UNTIL THE NEXT DENT....

That Big Old DENT!

While, I don't agree with Dr. Umar Johnson in some areas, I must admit that he is solid brother when it comes to his beliefs and practices regarding our childhoods and how they impact our adulthood.  In the video below he discusses why we have so much trouble in relationships and ultimately ties our issues to the impact of fatherlessness!  Well, you know my Daddy Void antenna went up! Although, his language is coarse at times, I feel his message is sound.  We must fill the voids in our lives, both men and women from our childhoods before we can be remotely successful in any committed relationship.  That of course is what Dented Daughters is about....Investigating the big old dent in your life, correcting your poor posturing as a result and then moving forward with support and guidance to the best you possible.  Yes, your father left you with a dent, a whole the size of Texas when he left you emotionally or physically, but you can no longer use that as an excuse to fail.  Seek help now! Take the Daddy Void Project assessment and determine what your biggest coping mechanism is and how you can change your life as a result of it.  You don't have to live beneath your privileges.  There is help available for you!

Please watch the video of Dr. Johnson as he explains why we get trapped in bad relationships and consider taking this FREE assessment sponsored by thedaddyvoidproject to determine how you have been impacted by fatherlessness by clicking on the link below.  For further details regarding the assessment please contact us at thedaddyvoidproject@gmail.com

The Daddy Void Prototype Test

Until the next DENT......